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Mother and Son Write Book About Blindness

FREDRICKSBURG, VA - My mom is blind, but that is okay.

She can do all the same things your mom does every day.

Last year, Robert Martin wrote a poem about his mother's blindness. Growing tired of watching people stare at his mom, Robert used rhyme to deal with his feelings.

Katrilla Martin was impressed with her son's poem.

But it might have become just another piece of paper stuck to her apartment door, where a collection of Robert's drawings, schoolwork and spelling tests hang next to notes from his teachers and a sign about the National Federation of the Blind.

And then Katrilla, a University of Mary Washington student, got an assignment to write a children's book.

She could have come up with her own words, her own lyrical, simple text just right for children.

But she already had the words perfect for a children's book: Robert's poem.

And the topic was close to her heart.

Katrilla started losing her sight in 2002 as a result of a rare, degenerative eye condition.

"I didn't see it as an end to my life, just learning to do things differently," she said.

But as her vision grew more and more cloudy, even simple things became difficult for Katrilla, now a single mom and Fredericksburg resident.

The hardest part was the way people treated her.

Robert said people sometimes thought she was weird or dumb.

From the beginning, Katrilla became passionate about educating people about blindness. She often showed up at Robert's school to tell his friends there's nothing wrong with being blind.

"I prefer to educate children, because they're a lot more open-minded than adults," Katrilla said. "It's hard for [adults] to believe that you can get on with your life. But children see that you can deal with blindness and go on."

Katrilla learned that lesson herself while attending training at the Colorado Center for the Blind last year. She went through independence training, learning braille and life management skills.

She also went skiing, white-water rafting and rock climbing.

Robert visited Katrilla for the summer. What he saw both astounded and comforted him.

In his poem, Robert writes about how proud he was to see his mom skiing down a Colorado mountain. After seeing her whiz down the hill, a seeing guide on either side of her, Robert knew his mother really could do anything.

He no longer felt shy about her or worried that people would think she was weird.

He wrote the poem and talked openly about his mom. Robert says his friends are now sometimes curious but never rude.

He hopes that when other people read his words and see his pictures, they will become more comfortable with blindness.

Katrilla's professor Dale Wright said Robert and his mom picked a perfect medium to teach people.

"Books are a way of opening up the world to children, helping them explore worlds and issues that they might not be able to explore," Wright said. "It gives us an in, a way to open a dialogue about certain issues, certain topics."

Wright, an assistant professor of education at UMW, said Katrilla and Robert's book, while geared toward children, can teach people of all ages.

"I even learned some things," Wright said.

Katrilla hopes the book will help her with her future plans to become a guidance counselor for blind children when she graduates with her master's in education from UMW.

Under the pictures drawn by Robert and his words typed in large print, Katrilla printed Braille on label tape. That way, her blind students would be able to read the book and see that "blind people, if given the opportunity, can do as well as their sighted counterparts," Katrilla said.

She plans to work in Colorado after her graduation, because the transit system (a near-necessity for a blind person) is better and there is a greater awareness.

"I would love to stay here in this area and work with blind children, but I would spend a third of my money in transportation," Katrilla said.

Date published: 2/16/2005

link to article in The Free Lance Star

  

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