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Video: Things People Say to Transracial Families

A couple years ago we shared a popular video series  making its way around the internet: Sh*t White Girls Say...To Black Girls Part 1, Sh*t White Girls Say...To Black Girls Part 2, Sh*t Mixed People Get. Today I ran across "@#$% People Say to Transracial Families" Enjoy! Your friends at iCelebrateDiversity.com [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFp61HAj-nk]
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Poem: I Am Invisible

I Am Invisible ~by Haley Thurman I am invisible I hate to be invisible I am invisible Do you think I am invisible? I think you think I am invisible You can't see me You can't see Haley I am a girl I am biracial and half white Is it the white in me you don't like? Is it my black that's invisible to you? I have brown hair and brown eyes My lips are red My shirt is yellow But you don't see me because I am invisible Or are you blind? This was originally on Oprah in November, 1999. Below is the video and interesting segment of being biracial in America (includes singer, Mariah Carey). Maybe we can get an update on Oprah's #wherearetheynow.  I find it sad that there are still such negative comments written today...your thoughts? Enjoy! Your friends at iCelebrateDiversity.com

 
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Poem: "The lady said" (biracial)

Here is a tiny treasure that I found in the library this summer. A book of poems, All the Colors of the Race, written by Arnold Adoff. Based on his own interracial family, Adoff writes from the perspective of his biracial (black/white) daughter, which I find very interesting. At first I was a bit thrown off because I generally prefer poetry to rhyme, however, his style is considered "free verse" poetry. The more I read (and re-read) them, the more I fall in love with them! I hope you do too. The lady said by Arnold Adoff The lady said:       what are you going to                                                  be                                 when you grow                                 all the way up? And I said:      a woman. And she said.     No. I mean what are                                           you                                           now? And I said:   a girl. And she said:   No. I mean what do you call                                         yourself? And I said:   Honey. Baby. Sweet                                        potato                                        pie                                        face me. If she finds it hard,                      I find it easy      to make it hard for her.
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Children's Book: "Peanut Butter Brother" (Interracial)

I'm Your Peanut Butter Big Brother by Selina Alko Interracially married, author/illustrator Selina Alko came up with the idea for this book while pregnant with her first child. She wondered what the child might look like--and created a darling children's book that reflects the many possibilities. (from the book) Big Brother wonders whether the new baby will look like him. He blends from semisweet dark Daddy chocolate bar and strawberry cream Mama's milk. He's the baby's peanut butter big-brother-to-be. Will the baby's hair look like big brother's soft, crunchy billows of cotton candy, or Noel's string beans locked this way and that, or Akira's puffy head of broccoli flowerets? Will the baby's eyes match big brother's--hot cocoa footballs set wide apart--or will they be a perfect pair of pennies? I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the illustrations! This will be a favorite in our home for sure! Order here.
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Children's Book: "Andrew's Loose Tooth" (multiracial)

Andrew's Loose Tooth by Robert Munsch I've been on a quest this summer to find books that reflect multiracial families. This is a super funny one! The book is about...you guessed it, a little boy who has a loose tooth. His parents, the dentist, his friend--even the Tooth Fairy--find wacky ways of pulling Andrew's tooth that no one should ever try! (WARNING: do NOT read to children who have not already lost a tooth...you will scare them to death!) One of my favorite things about this author (aside from his books being hilarious) is the fact that he incorporates diverse families in the illustrations. This family appears to have a white mother, white father, white child (Andrew) and two brown children. Andrews best friend is Asian, the Tooth Fairy is brown and the people in the city are are very diverse. Here's dad with the kids:

Read it, let me know what you think!
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Book: "The Painted Man: What My Son Taught Me About Race"

The Painted Man: What My Son Taught Me About Race

by Desmond Williams

Another great find! Father in a multiracial family, Desmond Williams, puts pen (pencil) to paper and creates a soon-to-be-published graphic novel The Painted Man: What My Young Son Taught Me About Race. The collection is a "coming of race” memoir that finds a dad confronted by racially charged questions posed directly by his young son and the people with whom they come into contact. This book can be used as a conversation starter, a self-reflection inducer, or simply a window into an experience that might not reflect your own. BTW, I found it interesting that Williams is from Brooklyn, NY. I would have thought "they" were much more versed in this thing we call "race". More about The Painted Man
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Poem: "Lisa" by Beverly McLoughland (biracial)

I found the following treasure at a school bookfair eight years ago. It was buried in a book titled "Through Our Eyes: Poems and Pictures About Growing Up". I probably picked the book because it had "atypical" (not the usual blonde-haired and blue-eyed) girls on the cover. To see this, I knew it was intentional. I was happy to see children of different races and ethnicities represented on the pages. The book is filled with sweet poems, but we have especially enjoyed this one:  Lisa by Beverly McLoughland Lisa's father is Black And her mother is White, And her skin is a Cinnamon Delight, Her hair is Dark And her eyes are Light, And Lisa is Lisa, Day and Night. And Lisa is Lisa, Night and Day, Though there are People Who sometimes Say-- Well, is Lisa That, Or is Lisa This? -- Lisa is Everything She is. Lisa is Lisa, Day and Night, And her skin is a Cinnamon Delight, And Lisa is Sun And Lisa is Star, And Lisa is All The dreams that Are.
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